How To Dress Like A DILF

Move over MILFs… make way for the DILFs. I don’t need to explain what that stands for. Let’s go with “Dads In Latest Fashions”, to keep things respectable.

If you haven’t heard by now, the “older man” look is trending hard this year. Ever since Balenciaga sent real dads with their real kids down the catwalk, there has been a new and unexpected fashion tribe, the DILF.

The fashion items we’re talking here are synonymous with styles that are now a quarter of a century old: relaxed, stonewash denim, sensible jackets, dad caps and more. Which raises the question – how have fathers, once synonymous with lame fits and tired style, become fashionable?

Some commentators have suggested that the DILF look came about from cash-strapped millennials hankering after the stability embodied in the suburban dads of their childhood, with their mortgages, sensible cars and retirement savings. What was once boring has become aspirational.

The shapes and styles that the dad trend has resurrected come from the early nineties, AKA comfortable and practical. Dads dress for function, not form; starting with outdoorsy brands they favour, such as Patagonia and the North Face.

The DILF look is eye-catchingly eclectic. t’s created a great way of clashing different styles from different genres together and making them all work.

Key Pieces from The DILF Trend

 

Dad Cap

The origins of the dad trend can be traced back a couple of years to the sudden arrival of the kind of simple cotton-twill baseball caps that are sported on football touchlines everywhere.

Cheap and logo-friendly, they’ve long been a streetwear mainstay, but became an unlikely fashion must-have when Balenciaga created its own version.

Dad Jeans

Loose, pleated trousers are a viable legwear option for giving off dad vibes, but high-waisted, straight-legged dad jeans are the ultimate, combining the robustness of denim with the roominess of joggers (plus the ability to bend over and squat down – crucial with kids).

Look no further than original Levi’s 501s: regular jeans for regular guys. 

Chunky Trainers

The chunky trainer is definitely the footwear big deal of the season and epitomises ‘dad style’ for its ugliness, and how it’s worn with everything. You could go with something like a New Balance 990.

Technical Jacket

An oversized tech jacket (anorak in basic terms) is also key as it adds an element of ‘trainspotter’ to the anti-fashion look. Wear it over everything from tailoring to sportswear, just like your dad’s favourite jacket.

The North Face is a great DILF piece. 

Half-Zip Fleece

It’s a toss-up between this and the mock turtleneck. But few pieces or fabrics are as DILF-friendly as a half-zip fleece. Because of that, it has languished unloved on the racks at hiking stores, which is a shame: it’s warm but not bulky, making it ideal for layering under your technical jacket and doubling as outerwear (albeit not waterproof) for those awkward in-between days. This is one time when getting fleeced is a good thing.

Airport Chic

What to wear to the airport

There are certain places where we always want to look our best: a first date, a job interview and now – the airport. Social media shopping site LTK has just reported a 400% increase in searches for airport outfits. Handy, because many of us are heading to airports at this time of year.

While comfort is usually first and foremost on our minds when considering in-flight fashion, with tracksuits, leggings and extra soft socks (sometimes accompanied by Crocs or slides) making regular appearances, the rise in loungewear and “snuggly sets” means we no longer have to choose between fashionable and functional. Just take a look at brands such as Adanola, Chelsea Peers or Skims.

For short-haul flights, what you wear perhaps requires less thought from a comfort perspective, although the onboard temperature can get quite cold and one should take that into consideration. However, long-haul flights are where comfort really is key, and fashion fans are now sharing their chic and cosy looks on social media, some of which I’ve shared below. So, if you’re looking for travel outfit inspiration, here goes…

The tonal two-piece

The tracksuit is a go-to for all kinds of travelling. As with any co-ord, it will have you looking effortlessly put together with minimal pause for thought. Plus, they’re soft, snuggly and can be worn with a vest top underneath to keep you warm or cool depending on the aircon situation.

Fashion fans are leaning towards Chelsea Peers (this chic green half zip sweatshirt, £55), Adanola (incredibly soft hoodies, £60) and Skims (I love the logo-free zip-up hoodie, £90, and matching shorts, £52. 

Build up with a blazer

Blazers are one of the easiest ways to smarten up an outfit. If you’re travelling for work or just want to feel a little fancy while up in the air, add one to your trusty travel outfit of leggings, trainers and a plain T-shirt. 

Neutral shades will help the blazer stand out against black leggings, such as this beige single-button M&S option, £49.50, and this double-breasted belted River Island find, £49. If you’d prefer a basic black, this Cos pick, £135, will work with almost any airport outfit.

Longline shorts

While shorts may not be the first thing that spring to mind when assembling an airport outfit (leather seats, such as on British Airways, and bare legs aren’t a pleasant combo), longline options will help you sport a warm weather look without your skin touching yours seat.

I’m particularly fond of sports-like styles such as this slouchy side-stripe Free People pair, £44; Cotton On’s lilac jort, £11; and Uniqlo’s utility style Bermudas, £24.90. 

Step into sportswear

Sportswear and gym kits are designed to be comfortable, making them a great option for travel. Plus, the bright and bold colours are an easy way to step into the holiday mood, even if it’s pouring down with rain on the runway.

Key pieces that we’re enjoying include the classic Adidas three-stripe tracksuit bottoms, £50; Finisterre’s colourful windbreakers, £135; and this varsity-like With Nothing Underneath cap, £32.

Layer up in linen

Yes, linen is prone to creasing, but that adds to its laid-back charm. Plus, the lightweight breathable fabric is one of the best solutions to keep you cool when stepping off the plane in particularly hot locations. Matching tops and shirts, especially in a neutral shade, will have you out the door in minutes and pair perfectly with sandals and trainers.

White Stuff has a great range of linen shirts in a whole host of shades, £75; F&F has a nice neutral set, with the waistcoat, £29.50, and trousers, £19.50, sold separately. And, if you’re tempted to try a more colourful look, take a peek at Nobody’s Child’s butter yellow options, £47.

Welcome To Amanda Zips It Up – August

Welcome to Amanda Zips It Up and it’s (almost) August already!

So much happening over the past few days, including the Euros Finals and the Oasis reunion – which we will be discussing in this issue.

Plus, I’ve been on my travels, with the plenty of reading time, and came across an interesting piece in The Times, especially for any new mums looking for a side hustle and an extra bit of pocket money.
Many women in the US and UK are selling their breast milk at a premium, after witnessing demand for it in the market. And they are raking in the dosh, up to a £1000 a month, depending on how much they can pump.

Yes, women are stockpiling their breast milk, selling it online, and cashing-in. And this milk business is no small joke —these ‘mammas’ are selling their naturally available milk to other women and in some cases even to bodybuilders, who believe that breast milk is the best to pump up those pecs

Personally, I wouldn’t want to go anywhere near my children the with breast milk of another woman. However, they do say that “Breast Is Best” – would you go there?

In addition to breast milk being incredibly good for babies, have a guess what the new super food is, taking over the world? It’s all right here in this week’s instalment. Read on…

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It’s your Mid-Week Fashion Fix, LIVE on Mi-Soul every Weds at 5pm with Ronnie Herel

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This week, rather than reporting on the latest trends to come out of Fashion houses and celebrity collaborations, I thought I’d let you know what I HAVE SEEN EVERYONE WEARING from London to the Balearics and my opinion on these looks – as according to Amanda Zips it Up.

What’s hot and what’s not?

4 looks I have seen literally everywhere which are RED HOT and one particular accessory for men which is simply NOT (hot). BASICALLY, what I find attractive and unattractive.

Lets Go.

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Catch Ronnie Herel & Amanda on Mi-Soul Radio every Wednesday LIVE at 5pm with the fashion blog

Welcome to your Mid-Week Fashion Fix, from Amanda Zips It Up.

So, it’s full-on summer wherever you may be right now. 

It was my birthday last weekend, and we had dinner with friends in Port Adriano Mallorca. Whilst I sipped on my usual rioja, everyone else was asking for an ‘OOGO’. Well, that’s what it sounded like anyway.

It looked like a very colourful cocktail, but what the hell is an ‘OOGO”?

Move over Aperol, there’s a new Spritz in town – and it’s ideal for this balmy summer weather. Introducing ‘THE HUGO’. Yep, my friends were just ordering in a Spanish accent.

OUT with Aeperol..

The Hugo Spritz is an aperitivo (that’s Italian for pre-dinner drink) created by an Italian bartender. Roland Gruber, the mixologist in question, was looking for an alternative to the ubiquitous Aperol cocktail which, despite its popularity, isn’t to everyone’s taste. Especially mine. 

Containing elderflower syrup, cava/prosecco and mint leaves as the main ingredients, the Hugo Spritz is sweet and light whilst being an equally-delicious and refreshing thirst-quencher.

And it’s making the rounds on TikTok too, with more than 285 million views for related videos. In fact, the Hugo Spritz has seen the biggest search growth out of all cocktails analysed over the past year, with searches for the recipe skyrocketing by 281% during that time.

With all this hype, the Hugo Spritz is set to be the new hot summer drink. And it’s super easy to make.

How to make the Hugo Spritz

  • St Germain Elderflower Liqueur, 60 ml
  • Prosecco or sparkling wine, 90 ml
  • Soda water, 30 ml
  • Fresh mint leaves (optional)
  • Lemon or lime wedge (optional)

All you need to do is fill a glass with ice cubes, then create heaven.

Onto this week’s instalment, and we start with hangover supplements to deal with all those Hugos you’ll be drinking this summer, plus we exploure the ultimate ‘cooling’ trousers, and Nike launch the ‘Dirty Air-Force 1’s’. Enjoy

The Mi-Soul Merch Collection

So, here’s the perfect feature for me as, the resident Mi-Soul Radio fashionista.

Introducing the new Mi-Soul Radio T-SHIRT & HOODIE merch collection, featuring classic men’s and women’s t-shirts and black hoodies.

Whether you’re with us at Boisdale on a Friday, UNDR on a Sunday, E1 over Xmas or our Grand weekender in Brighton next April, here’s your chance to fly the flag.

First, the Tees are made from 100% ring-spun cotton, they offer a soft and comfortable fit. Featuring the iconic Mi-Soul logo prominently printed on the front, you can choose between the red/white design or the elegant all gold print.

Micheal Angol Modeling The Gold

The semi-fitted cut T-shirt is perfect for casual wear, with a seamless twin-needle collar, taped neck and shoulders, and twin-needle sleeves and hem.

Or stay warm and stylish with the Mi-Soul Heavy Blend Hoodie, crafted from a 50% cotton and 50% polyester blend for comfort and durability. Featuring the Mi-Soul logo on the front, you can choose between the classic red/white logo or the sleek all gold print. The hoodie is designed with a drop shoulder style and a double fabric hood for added warmth. With a front pouch pocket, ribbed cuffs and hem with spandex, and twin needle stitching, this hoodie combines practicality with style.

Some of you may have seen me recently wearing the Mi-Soul dress which was bespoke made for me but let’s see if any of our ladies are interested in grabbing one for next summer. I’d love your feedback on this.

And as we look forward to warmer temps – how about the Mi-Soul vest. I’m loving this for the gym or over a bikini in summer with a pair of cut-offs.

This women’s vest top is a comfortable and stylish choice for any Mi-Soul fan. Made from 100% ring-spun cotton, it features the Mi-Soul logo on the front, available in the classic red/white print. With a fitted design and rib-bound neck and armholes, it’s perfect for layering or wearing alone. Whether at a Mi-Soul event or out on a casual day, this vest top will keep you looking and feeling great.

 Vest: £20

Men’s T-Shirt: £25

Hoodie: £45

Shop http://www.mi-soul.com

Welcome To Amanda Zips It Up

Welcome to Amanda Zips It Up and I’m penning this week’s blog in my fashion office here in London and – you guessed it – it’s raining again.

Regular readers will know one of my favourite DJs is the awesome D&B don Jumping Jack Frost, who he has a quirky fashion range, Black Sheep Clothing. I have featured many bits from this streetwear line in AZIU, and one item in particular is so perfect for the current conditions.

Here he is modelling the Black Sheep Clothing Rain Poncho – sleek, chic and complete with graffiti print, hood and waterproof material. Guaranteed to make you look on point, even when you’re getting drenched by our tiresome weather.

Jumping Jack Frost

Definitely on my shopping list.

In other news, having flicked through the Sunday red tops (newspapers), one story caught my eye to share with you.

According to a survey by dating website “illicetencounters.com” – Men with goatie beards are Britain’s biggest love rats. 2,000 women were asked whether a cheating partner had facial hair and if so, what kind?  Nearly 1 in 5 women said their Ex had a tidily trimmed tiny beard.

18% of men who had been unfaithful sported a goatee. Another 17% of women said their cheating partner had a ‘Designer Stubble and 15% said they had a moustache.

Kanye
Will Smith
Ice Cube
Common

There has always been something not quite right about a man with a finely manicured goatee. He is trying too hard. Watch out girls!

However, men with a full beard are less likely to do the dirty with just 9% of women affected. 

Jamie
DB

Phew… because I’m a sucker for a beard.

Onto this week…

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Can you believe it’s almost October? I’ve been in Ibiza this week and the beaches are all still packed – and thong bikinis are everywhere!

But the one trend to be seen on almost everyone is the white framed sunglasses famed by DJ Fisher.

If the weather wasn’t so miserable in the UK, I would be wearing them with pride – guaranteed! Maybe not with bucket hat though – although they are to be seen everywhere too.

In other news, my fave Drum & Bass DJ Jumping Jack Frost contacted me with his new collection at Black Sheep Clothing.

He says “The Black sheep has been a symbol of rebelliousness and bad luck for centuries. In many cultures, the black sheep is considered to be an outcast, and it’s often used as a metaphor for someone who doesn’t fit in with the rest of society.. Our new clothing brand has caught the imagination of artists and visionaries across the spectrum of the art’s and we are stepping up in 2024. https://blacksheepclothing.net/

Enjoy this week’s instalment of AZIU. x

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Welcome to Amanda Zips It Up,

Even though we’re into September, it seems like the weather took no time in changing – and you’d think we’d know this about the UK by now…

If you’ve been caught short today, now might be an appropriate time to invest in a raincoat that will keep you dry, whether you’re off out on a walk, trekking the countryside or just heading into the office.

I haves found the best raincoat on the high street right now – that is both fashionable, and functional.

From trusty ASOS who are well known for their waterproof coats – this is here to help keep you dry (and warm) as the unpredictable weather is back with a bang (sob).

ASOS DESIGN Rubberised Rain Parka Coat in Mushroom

We’re ready for a rainy day with this stylish and practical raincoat. It features a drawstring hood to keep your head dry, a press-stud placket for easy fastening, and convenient pocket details for storing essentials. The elasticated cuffs ensure a snug fit, while the relaxed fit provides comfort and ease of movement.

On to this week’s instalment. Enjoy. xx

Cafe 432 Interior Designer – Dreamweavers UK

Many of my readers are Mi-Soul Radio listeners, and if you are, the name Café 432 aka Jonsey. Arkin will be familiar to you.

At the helm of a company with over 20 years of expertise, created not only with a love of interior design, but a dance music background and ethical sustainable construction technique, this is Dreamweavers UK.

DJ, producer, radio presenter, double platinum awarded mix engineer and well-streamed Spotify artist, Arkin is also an interior designer, another unexpected creative string to his bow.

Dreamweavers UK has been designing and producing soft furnishings – featuring the classic and immensely popular pebble design cushions (my favourite is the multi coloured) as well as luxury blankets, the spectacular and rather regal rugs, plus throws of the highest quality.

The reviews speak for themselves.

Speaking to Arkin, I was super impressed with his passion for interiors as well as his talent for music. He has been spinning both plates for years.

Check out the website and sign up for exclusive promotions and sneaky peaks at new collections.

Just one cushion alone is a beautiful investment for any sofa, bed or armchair. Prices start at £45.

www.dreamweaversuk.oc.uk

Design is everything and we strive to create unique pieces to elevate the look of your home.  With over 20 years’ experience in the design industry. We are proud of our construction techniques, all of which are hand sewn to the highest standard.

Contact me to arrange a 15% discount – If you’re a Mi-Soul listener. DM my socials.

At the moment, the best sellers are out of stock, like the white colours and greys, and will be back in stock in early September.