We’re heading towards ‘smart casual’ or ‘black tie’ dress codes, as Christmas functions loom. However, some dress codes can be sufficiently off-putting for you to immediately RSVP “No”.
With with the rise of athleisure and the casualisation of workwear, it’s standard practice to wear jeans and trainers or ‘smart casual’ pretty much everywhere these days. For men, the tie is almost dead in buried, even in the City of London.
Meaning that a Black Tie dress code feels about as relevant to our lives as a spacesuit. It is nice, however, to have an opportunity to dress up. And Black Tie is an excuse to give it your all in the wardrobe department.
There’s no reason to feel daunted by having to dress up. Dress code rules might sound intimidating but, once broken down, they’re easily digestible.
What does a Black Tie dress code actually mean?
Black tie simply means formalwear. If you want a visual description, imagine the kind of dress you would wear to a red-carpet premiere, a floor-length gown in an evening-appropriate fabric like silk, chiffon or velvet. That would definitely tick all the boxes.
What NOT to wear to a black tie event?
If you’re unsure about what to wear, contact the host and ask what they’re wearing themselves. Having said that, don’t drop a text on the morning of – instead leave enough time to make sure you have the perfect outfit at hand – steamed and dry-cleaned. In terms of shoes, formal shoes will obviously be the most fitting, which means putting anything too casual on ice.
Flip flops, wedges and slutty platforms or even espadrilles are best left on the shelf on this occasion. Instead, choose something like a pointed satin pump, a slingback or a barely-there sandal. And if you prefer flats, an elegant pair of ballet pumps would do the job nicely. Just make sure the hem of your dress doesn’t create a tripping hazard.
Do dress codes matter?
The short answer: yes. Even though the rules and attitudes around dress codes are becoming increasingly relaxed, following dress codes is a show of respect to the effort that has gone into putting an event together. Regardless of which dress is required, sticking to the dress code noted on the invitation is a nod to the host, thus it’s just good manners.
What if you don’t like dresses?
Luckily, for those frightened by the thought of a frock, modern day dressing offers alternative options to a black tie dress. A tailored tuxedo from Zara is a classic choice, as is a formal jumpsuit. I love a suit or jumpsuit so I would always pot for this.
Here are a few ideas for ladies if you find yourself invited to a posh do. My advice? Get down to Zara for everything, but these are the looks to copy.
Reiss Paula Hybrid Jersey Satin Plunge Maxi Dress
Solace London Nella Tie-Neck Ruffled Crepe Gown
Reiss June Wide-Leg Belted Jumpsuit
Karen Millen Satin Back Crepe Drape One-Shoulder Wide-Leg Jumpsuit
Adrianna By Adrianna Papell Knit Crepe Tuxedo Jumpsuit
Jimmy Choo Black Patent Leather Sandals
Charles & Keith Metallic Slingback Pumps